I too have horses in my past that were victims of my ignorance. Horses who were not allowed to say “No Thank you, I’m not ready for that” Horses who understood me way more than I understood them. So grateful that people like yourself are willing to share your knowledge so I can move forward with my obsession:) I gave up riding and Horses for 15 years because I just couldn’t continue with the way things were and couldn’t find a better way…until now. I appreciate you sharing your journey as it fills me with the hope that change can happen and help is available.